"I don't think simple suffering teaches. If so, the whole world would be wise, since everyone suffers. Suffering should be added the processing of grief, understanding, patience, love, loyalty and the will to remain vulnerable." Anne Morrow Lindbergh
Like most people, I embarked on adulthood with a plan. Then life came along to remind me how silly most plans are. Life is random and both goes along with, and defies our plans. Like billions of others like me, I've learned this at the sharp end of life. But I am learning to live with it. So let's do what humans are good at and communicarte with one another to make sense of this aspect of life.